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Rather than trying to learn who he is and what he’s about, you look at his behavior and the things he says as a means to measure how he feels about you…
and whether you’re getting closer or further away from your goal of having a relationship with him.
You may not even realize you’re doing it; it’s not something you express outright.
But it’s there and it comes across, even in the slightest ways.
When asked, many guys will say they don’t know why they were suddenly turned off…they just were. Is it really out of the blue without cause or provocation? The reason it’s so hard to pinpoint and articulate is because it’s extremely subtle.
During the first few dates with a new guy, your vibe is typically pretty laid-back and easygoing.
Think about how you feel when someone approaches you and tries to sell something.
This inevitably impacts your vibe, you become a parasite of sorts and everyone you come into contact with is simply a means to an end.
When you meet a guy who makes you feel OK, your need for that feeling becomes overwhelming and you latch on forcefully.
You know how sometimes you’ll go to take a sip of water and you literally can’t stop chugging?
You didn’t even realize you were thirsty, it’s only when you begin to quench the silent thirst that you realize how potent it was. MORE: 5 Ways to Ruin a Budding Relationship It’s tough for someone to nail down the source of feeling not OK, but they unconsciously latch onto things that will get rid of this feeling, usually through reassurance or trying to make situations come about that they feel will make them happy and finally grant them relief.